JOHN BORDERS

How you conduct yourself in meetings demonstrates what your children have to deal with. General Guidelines Stay out of the past – We want to avert future problems, not assign blame for past problems. Focus on the parent relationship (i.e., the children) not the ex-partner relationship. Bring difficult issues / problems to the meeting so…

The effectiveness of your therapist depends largely upon how carefully you select him or her. There are several important things to keep in mind when comparing therapists. Don’t settle – At the outset, decide that you’re not going to settle for just anyone. You might hear that “They’re all about the same…who you get doesn’t really make much…