JOHN BORDERS

Communicating in Meetings

By JOHN BORDERS / October 1, 2020 /

How you conduct yourself in meetings demonstrates what your children have to deal with. General Guidelines Stay out of the past – We want to avert future problems, not assign blame for past problems. Focus on the parent relationship (i.e., the children) not the ex-partner relationship. Bring difficult issues / problems to the meeting so…

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Selecting a Therapist

By JOHN BORDERS / September 3, 2020 /

The effectiveness of your therapist depends largely upon how carefully you select him or her. There are several important things to keep in mind when comparing therapists. Don’t settle – At the outset, decide that you’re not going to settle for just anyone. You might hear that “They’re all about the same…who you get doesn’t really make much…

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